The purpose of Relief Society is to help prepare women for the blessings of eternal life as they increase faith in Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and His Atonement. To strengthen individuals, families, and homes through ordinances and covenants. To work in unity to help those in need.

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Sunday, June 10, 2018

Lesson Recap: June 10, 2018


"With One Accord"
Sister Reyna Aburto


In order to reach our sublime destiny, we need each other, and we need to be unified.

One of the most remarkable creatures on earth is the monarch butterfly. On a trip to Mexico to spend Christmas with my husband’s family, we visited a butterfly sanctuary, where millions of monarch butterflies spend the winter. It was fascinating to see such an impressive sight and for us to reflect on the example of unity and obedience to divine laws that God’s creations demonstrate.1

Monarch butterflies are master navigators. They use the sun’s position to find the direction they need to go. Every spring, they travel thousands of miles from Mexico to Canada, and every fall, they return to the same sacred fir forests in Mexico.2 They do this year after year, one tiny wing flap at a time. During their journey, they cluster together at night on trees to protect themselves from the cold and from predators.3

A group of butterflies is called a kaleidoscope.4 Isn’t that a beautiful image? Each butterfly in a kaleidoscope is unique and different, yet these seemingly fragile creatures have been designed by a loving Creator with the ability to survive, travel, multiply, and disseminate life as they go from one flower to the next, spreading pollen. And although each butterfly is different, they work together to make the world a more beautiful and fruitful place.
Like the monarch butterflies, we are on a journey back to our heavenly home, where we will reunite with our Heavenly Parents.5Like the butterflies, we have been given divine attributes that allow us to navigate through life, in order to “[fill] the measure of [our] creation.”6 Like them, if we knit our hearts together,7 the Lord will protect us “as a hen [gathers] her chickens under her wings”8 and will make us into a beautiful kaleidoscope.
Girls and boys, young women and young men, sisters and brothers, we are on this journey together. In order to reach our sublime destiny, we need each other, and we need to be unified. The Lord has commanded us, “Be one; and if ye are not one ye are not mine.”9
Jesus Christ is the ultimate example of unity with His Father. They are one in purpose, in love, and in works, with “the will of the Son being swallowed up in the will of the Father.”10
How can we follow the Lord’s perfect example of unity with His Father and be more unified with Them and with each other?
An inspiring pattern is found in Acts 1:14. We read, “[The men] all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women.”11
I think it is significant that the phrase “with one accord” appears several times in the book of Acts, where we read about what Jesus Christ’s followers did immediately after He ascended to heaven as a resurrected being, as well as the blessings they received because of their efforts. It is also significant that we find a similar pattern among the faithful of the American continent at the time the Lord visited and ministered to them. “With one accord” means in agreement, in unity, and all together.
Some of the things that the faithful Saints did in unity in both places were that they testified of Jesus Christ, studied the word of God, and ministered to each other with love.12
The Lord’s followers were one in purpose, in love, and in works. They knew who they were, they knew what they had to do, and they did it with love for God and for each other. They were part of a magnificent kaleidoscope moving forward with one accord.
Some of the blessings they received were that they were filled with the Holy Ghost, miracles took place among them, the Church grew, there was no contention among the people, and the Lord blessed them in all things.13
We can suppose that the reason why they were so united is because they knew the Lord personally. They had been close to Him, and they had been witnesses of His divine mission, of the miracles that He performed, and of His Resurrection. They saw and touched the marks in His hands and feet. They knew with certainty that He was the promised Messiah, the Redeemer of the world. They knew that “He is the source of all healing, peace, and eternal progress.”14
Even though we may not have seen our Savior with our physical eyes, we can know that He lives. As we draw closer to Him, as we seek to receive a personal witness through the Holy Ghost of His divine mission, we will have a better understanding of our purpose; the love of God will dwell in our hearts;15 we will have the determination to be one in the kaleidoscopes of our families, wards, and communities; and we will minister to each other “in newer, better ways.”16
Miracles happen when the children of God work together guided by the Spirit to reach out to others in need.
We hear so many stories of neighborly love shown among people when catastrophe strikes. For example, when the city of Houston suffered a massive flood last year, people forgot about their own needs and went to the rescue. An elders quorum president sent a call for help to the community, and a fleet of 77 boats was quickly organized. Rescuers went around the affected neighborhoods and transported whole families to one of our meetinghouses, where they received refuge and much needed help. Members and nonmembers worked together with one purpose.
In Santiago, Chile, a Relief Society president had the desire to help immigrants in her community who had come from Haiti. By counseling together with her priesthood leaders, she and other leaders came up with the idea to offer Spanish classes to those immigrants, helping them integrate better into their new home. Every Saturday morning, missionaries gather together with their eager students. The feeling of unity in that building is an inspiring example of people from diverse backgrounds serving with one accord.
In Mexico, hundreds of members traveled for hours to help the survivors of two major earthquakes. They came with tools, machinery, and love for their neighbor. As volunteers gathered together in one of our meetinghouses waiting for instructions, the mayor of the city of Ixhuatán broke down in tears as he saw such a manifestation of “the pure love of Christ.”17
The Lord is now giving us the opportunity to counsel together each month in our priesthood quorums and Relief Societies, so we can all be more active participants in our ward or branch kaleidoscope—a place where we all fit in and where we are all needed.
Every one of our paths is different, yet we walk them together. Our path is not about what we have done or where we have been; it is about where we are going and what we are becoming, in unity. When we counsel together guided by the Holy Ghost, we can see where we are and where we need to be. The Holy Ghost gives us a vision that our natural eyes cannot see, because “revelation is scattered among us,”18 and when we put that revelation together, we can see more.
As we work in unity, our purpose should be to look for and do the Lord’s will; our incentive should be the love we feel for God and for our neighbor;19 and our greatest desire should be to “labor diligently,”20 so we can prepare the way for the glorious return of our Savior. The only way we will be able to do so is “with one accord.”
Like the monarch butterflies, let us continue on our journey together in purpose, each of us with our own attributes and contributions, working to make this a more beautiful and fruitful world—one small step at a time and in harmony with God’s commandments.
Our Lord Jesus Christ has promised us that when we are gathered together in His name, He is in the midst of us.21 I testify that He lives and that He was resurrected on a beautiful spring morning like today. He is the Monarch above all monarchs, “the King of kings, and [the] Lord of lords.”22
May we be one in the Father and in His Begotten Son, as we are guided by the Holy Ghost, is my humble prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.


Sunday, June 3, 2018

June Ministering Principles

*"Ministering Principles" are intended to help us learn to care for one another, not to be shared as messages during ministering visits. As we come to know those we serve, the Holy Ghost will prompt us to know what message they might need in addition to our care and compassion.*


Five Things Good Listeners Do

Truly Listening will help you know how to help meet the spiritual 
and temporal needs of others as the Savior would. 

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland said: "Perhaps even more important than speaking is listening... If we listen with love, we won't need to wonder what to say. It will be given to us by the Spirit." Listening is a skill we can learn. Listening shows our love for others, helps build strong relationships, and invites the Spirit to bless us wit the gift of discernment to help us understand others' needs. Here are five ways we an improve how we listen:

   1. Find Common Ground:

You might not agree with everything said, but agree with what you can without misrepresentation your own feelings. Being agreeable can help diffuse anxiety and defensiveness. (see Matthew 5:25).

  2. Reflect:

Paraphrase what you heard and how you understand the other to feel. This helps them know if they have been understood and gives them an opportunity to clarify. 

 3- Give Them Time:

Many people need time to gather their thoughts before speaking. Give them time to think both beforehand after they say something. (see James 1:19). Just because they are finished speaking doesn't mean they have said everything they have they need to. Don't be afraid of silence. (see Job 2:11-3:1 and Alma 18:14-16).
                 
 4- Clarify:

Don't be afraid to ask questions that clarify something you didn't understand (see Mark 9:32). Clarify reduces misunderstanding and shows your interest in what is being said. 

 5- Pay Attention:

We think faster than others speak. Resist the temptation to jump to conclusions or to think ahead to what you'll say when they're through. (see Proverbs 18:13) Instead, listen with the intent to understand. Your response will be better because it will be informed by greater understanding. 

President Russell M. Nelson taught that we should "learn to listen, and listen to learn from one another." As your learn to listen with the intent of learning about others, you will in a better position to understand their needs and hear promptings about how you can care for those around you as the Savior would. 

Ministering As the Savior Did:

As Jesus departed from Jericho, two blind men cried out to Him, saying, "Have mercy on us, O lord.. and Jesus stood still, and called them, and said, What will ye that I shall do unto you? They say unto him, Lord, that our eyes may be opened. So Jesus had compassion on them, and touched their eyes, and immediately their eyes received sight and they followed him." (Matthew 20:30, 32-34). What can we learn from how the Savior listened?



June 3, 2018: Lesson Recap

Creating a Sisterhood through Ministering 



May we show our gratitude and love for God by ministering with 
love to our eternal sisters and brothers. 
- Sister Jean B. Bingham

Sister Jean B. Bingham, Relief Society General President said in her April 2018 Conference Address, "What a better way to prepare to meet Him than to strive to become like Him thought loving ministering to one another! As Jesus Christ taught His followers at the beginning of this dispensation, 'If thou loves me thou shalt serve me.' Our service to others is a demonstration of discipleship and our gratitude and love for God and his Son, Jesus Christ."

As we learned from our Relief Society President, Helen Kerwin, and Bishop Green, we will be paired in "ministering partners" to better serve our sisters and to enrich our lives by creating vital bonds of sisterhood within the Relief Society. These ministering partnership with not only better serve the sister we are assigned to minister, but will also allow for more opportunities to fellowship each other and grow closer. Members of the Relief Society Presidency will be meeting with each of you this month to conduct a "ministering interview" to gain information regarding the sisters you are assigned to, and to get your preferences for future assignments and possible ministering partners. Per Bishop Green, and Brother Benning, husbands and wives can possibly be partnered to minister as well as mothers and daughter. Please pray about what would work best for you, and be led by the spirit in moving forward. 

As Sister Bingham suggested in her Conference Talk, "Ministering" looks like:
  • Going for a walk with your sister
  • Getting together for a "Game Night"
  • Offering service or serving together
  • Visiting in Person or talking on the phone, or texting
  • Delivering a Birthday Card
  • Sharing a scripture or conference talk that would be meaningful to that sister
  • It looks like becoming part of someone's life and caring about her
We must be led by the spirit to meet the needs of our sisters, and consider, "What does she need now?" Coupling this question with a sincere desire to serve, we are then led by the spirit to do what would lift and strengthen the sister. True ministering is accomplished one by one with love as motivation. The value and merit and wonder of sincere ministering is that it truly changes lives. When our hearts are open and willing to love and include, encourage and comfort, the power of our ministering will be irresistible. With love as the motivation, miracles will happen and we will find ways to bring our "missing" sisters into the all inclusive embrace of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

The Savior is our example in everything, not only in what we should do but why we should do it. "His life on earth was an invitation to us to raise our sights a little higher, to forget our own problems and to reach out to others." As we accept the opportunity to wholeheartedly minister to our sisters and brothers, we are blessed to become more spiritually refined, more in tune with the will of God, and more able to understand His plan to help each one return to Him. We will more readily recognize His blessings and be eager to extend those blessings to others.